Myth vs Fact

MYTH: Girls only like “Jerks” or “Bad Boys”

FACT: Girls don’t want a guy who dismisses them, treats them like dirt, or practically verbally abuses them.

Girls also don’t want a “nice” guy who is boring, numb, or lazy. Girls want a guy who is passionate—a guy who will fight for what he believes in, a guy who will pursue her heart, and a guy who will lay down his life for love. The most desired man in all of history was, is, and will be Jesus Christ—not a “nice” guy, but a man who overturned the money changers’ tables in the temple area to defend its sacredness, a man who proposed to leave 99 self-righteous in order to pursue one repentant heart, and a man who courageously endured scourging, beating, mocking and death to lay His life down for ours out of love, which we appropriately call the “Passion.”

Unfortunately, you might know girls who do settle and stay with the “bad boys.” If these girls don’t know their own beauty and dignity/worth, or don’t know the love of Christ, they will unfortunately take whatever they can out of fear of not being loved by anyone else. Pray for your sisters in Christ, and be the brother in Christ who shows them God’s compassion, patience, and mercy.

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I really enjoyed this article and if you would like to read it in it's entirety please go HERE. My favorite point made was this, "Girls want a guy who will pursue her heart". I pray that God will bless me in His time. Yes this is hard and has been, but trusting in Him is the ONLY way to go!!